The HARSH TRUTH about getting an amazing girlfriend

BY MIKE HAINES

Every girl is a stepping stone to an even hotter girl.

—  Niccolo Machiavelli  Mike Haines

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I have no idea why my leg looks like a chicken bone here’s. Let’s all just try and get past it, ok?

This post is going to offend a lot of people.

Most people are not willing to do what it takes to get an incredible girlfriend.

They bitch and complain that “women these days are all cheaters / sluts / attention whores / [fill in the blank sour grapes excuse]” 

In reality, if one of these hot slutty attention-seeking girls were to approach a guy like this and ask to be his girlfriend, he’d be over the moon with excitement.

Here’s the cold hard truth about getting an amazing girlfriend which you’re not going to learn in Disney movies or inspirational quotes on Facebook:

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Sour Grapes

BY MIKE HAINES

“Man is not a rational animal, but a rationalizing animal.”

— Robert Heinlein

A man is wandering through a forest on a hot day, and comes to a tree.

Spying some tasty grapes, he raises his arm to reach them. The grapes look so juicy and appealing, he can’t wait to taste them.

Yet he can’t reach the grapes. He tries to jump up and grab at them, but still they elude his grasp.

The man now has three choices…

  1. He can admit defeat and accept that he’s not tall enough to reach the grapes
  2. He can find a system which helps him to reach the grapes, such as piling some wood at the base of the tree so as to stand on it and extend his reach.
  3. He can play mental games with himself, in which he convinces himself that the grapes he can’t reach are sour. Fuck those whore grapes! They’re all cunts anyway!

 

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How To Never Run Out Of Things To Say With Women: A Simple “Conversation Hack”

BY MIKE HAINES

Today I’m going to give you a simple method for never running out of things to say when speaking with a woman.

Don’t use this unless you’re comfortable with turning your mouth into a “conversational fire-hose” which actually cannot stop spitting an endless stream of witty, hilarious banter to any woman who comes within a 1 meter radius.

This method will work even if you’re naturally “introverted”, and even if you’ve never approached a woman before.

Here it is:

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The Billionaire

BY MIKE HAINES

My uncle was once invited into the office of a powerful billionaire.

I won’t name this billionaire. All I’ll say is that he’s one of the richest men in the country where I live. 

If you want to picture this guy, imagine a shark in a power suit, with a greying Bill the Butcher moustache.

In other words, this man is basically a pirate.

Midway through the conversation, the billionaire looked my uncle square in the eye and said the following words:

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How To Date “Out Of Your League” And Get 9s And 10s (Part II)

BY MIKE HAINES

Originally posted on r/seduction. See Part I here.

 

shutterstock_260057864Last week I wrote a controversial post on this sub, provocatively entitled, “How to date out of your league and get 9s and 10s (and why most of you won’t)”.

Though it was upvoted hundreds of times and was by far the most popular thing I’ve ever posted here, responses to the piece were sharply divided.

After some reflection, I’ve come to the conclusion that many of the criticisms were right. In the original post, I spent a lot of time deconstructing the limiting beliefs which prevent guys from going for 9s and 10s — but I failed to replace them with a new empowering alternative.

This is a topic that means a lot to me because it took me so damn long to figure out and it was an absolute obsession for many years.

So I took the criticisms into account and stayed up all night drinking coffee and wrote this new, more in depth piece in an attempt to make things clearer.

 

Should you focus on getting the hottest girls?

You don’t have to make getting 9s and 10s a priority.

Everyone gets into this for their own reasons. Getting 9s and 10s was my reason.

If this is your priority, then this post will help you. If it’s not — not to worry. Do you.

However, it is interesting to see the rationalisations that guys will come up with to justify not going for what they really want but are afraid of.

For example, in response to my last post, many guys commented: “I don’t want to date 9s and 10s because they’re crazy”, or “I prefer the girl next door type — they’re usually freaks in bed”, and so on.

Those are all great arguments.

But let me ask you this.

When you jerk off to porn, what girls are you jerking off to?

9s and 10s.

So — on some level — you DO want to have sex with 9s and 10s.

Because when there’s no risk of rejection — from behind the safety of your computer — 9s and 10s are the women you CHOOSE to jerk off to.

So what I would say to guys who claim they’re “above” going for the super hotties: no matter how much you want to lie to yourself that you don’t want these types of girls, your own private behaviour indicates that you do.

And sure, perhaps you’re attracted to them sexually but don’t want to date them. Fine.

But you want to sleep with them, right?

Otherwise you wouldn’t jerk off to porn.

So just swallow your pride and learn how to sleep with them.

It’s really not that hard. Give yourself the gift of learning to get with incredibly beautiful women. I promise you’ll enjoy it 🙂

(Though the fact that this is even a debate at all is baffling to me, quite frankly, lol.)

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How To Date “Out Of Your League” And Get 9s And 10s (And Why Most Of You Won’t)

BY MIKE HAINES

Originally posted on r/seduction, where it received more upvotes than anything I’ve ever posted there (628 as of this time). A lot of people messaged me privately to say this really helped them take their game to the next level. Enjoy.

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A bitter little troll

I got into game primarily because I wanted to sleep with beautiful women — the“9s” and “10s”.
These girls never paid attention to me in high school, and to be honest I was bitter about it.
I wanted to be the guy who walks down the street with a Victoria’s Secret caliber girl on his arm and have people’s heads turn as they wonder, “Why in the hell is she with HIM?”
So that’s where I started from. A bitter little troll, hungry for status and power. You might think that with such an unhealthy mindset, I’d never get anywhere with game. That’s where you’d be wrong.

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Being A Bastard Works: A Red Pill Poem

By Mike Haines

All hot girls want to be with the villain, because all hot girls have a little villain in ‘em. Cruelty is the only language woman understands, so speak to her in her native tongue and she’ll lend a helping hand.

We’re told to be ourselves, be authentic — nothing more. But all too often being yourself leads to the girl being bored. Why not, instead, be interesting? Be challenging, be playful. Why not inject some mischief? It need not necessarily be hateful.

Ever gotten a phone number, then texted and been flaked? Instead make plans, then flake her first. She’ll beg you for the date. 

When talking to a 9 or 10, always go on the attack. Neg early, hard and often, then hit it from the back. (It will be the best forty seconds of her life.)

Nice guys don’t get laid, and nice guys don’t have fun. The reason women like jerks is that it’s jerks who get shit done. Steve Jobs treated his employees like shit. Ghandi slept with teenage girls. Martin Luther King Jr. cheated on his wife. Even Jesus roughed up the moneylenders.

All great men have a dark side, but far from low or shoddy, their Shadow is an essential part of the greatness they embody. Embrace the dark side, play the Trickster — be savage, cruel and vicious. To get her nude, just tease her hard — but keep it playful, not malicious.

Make her a figure of fun, put her under pressure mentally. If that fails to do the trick, insult her outright — though gently. You can call me an asshole all you want. You can scream that I’m a jerk. But to spread her thighs you must realize that Being a Bastard Works.


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4 Tricks To Get Over Your Fear Of Approaching Women

BY MICHAEL HAINES

Mike’s Note: I posted this on r/seduction yesterday. People seem to like it — as of today 224 people have upvoted it. I thought I’d post it here for posterity’s sake. Enjoy.

 

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My current SO, looking friendly as always. I have a weird thing for girls who look like they would have rejected me in high school. 

 

HOW TO ELIMINATE APPROACH ANXIETY

#1. Make approaching your only criteria for success

When you first start learning this stuff it’s easy to get overwhelmed. You’re trying to do six different things at once that you’ve seen in posts and videos (approach, flirt, joke around, tease her, show intent, venue change, etc.) The result is that you end up doing nothing.

Instead, eliminate ALL goals except the one that matters most: approaching.
When you go out as a beginner, your criteria for what constitutes a “successful night” should be only: “Did I approach?” If the answer is yes, you can count the session a success. If the answer is no, go out the next night and approach this time.

Repeat for 2 months. If you keep it this simple, you WILL eliminate approach anxiety in 8 weeks time. I promise. The key is to keep things simple.

 

#2. You can’t control people’s reactions. You can only control your own behaviour.

You can’t control another person’s reaction to you any more than you can control the weather.

What you CAN control is whether YOU take Right Action or not.

Think of your powers and abilities as two concentric circles, one inside the other. The inside circle is your behaviour. The outer circle is events, things which happen to you, and other people’s behaviour.

Right now, you can only influence the inner circle — whether or not you take Right Action. You cannot influence the outer circle: people’s reactions to you.
However, the more you expand the inner circle by taking Right Action, the more it will naturally begin to OVERLAP the outer circle.

Eventually you will reach a point where the inner circle completely dominates the outer circle. At this point, you constitute a man who is in complete control of his environment and can influence it however you like. This is what we call “tight game.”

In the words of Jack Nicholson in The Departed: “I don’t want to be a product of my environment. I want my environment to be a product of me.”

However, you can only reach this point by focusing on expanding the inner circle first. In other words, the only way to increase your influence over other people is to first attain complete influence over yourself. So make taking action your one and only god.

 

#3. Stop waiting for the “perfect time” to approach. It’s never going to come.

There’s a saying in business: “Timid salesman have skinny kids.”

It goes double for game. There’s never going to be a time that a hot girl starts smiling at you and waves you over. It’s simply not going to happen.

Every approach you do will be imperfect. There are almost no “good opportunities” to approach. There’ll always be a reason not to.

You’ll be at a weird angle to the girl. There’ll be a guy in the set. She’ll be on her way out and stopping her might irritate her. There’ll be “too many people” nearby.

Only when you realise that there’s NEVER going to be a good opportunity to approach will you reach the point of approaching anyway. Slim chances of success? Well, guess what: You miss 100% of the shots you don’t take.Approach anyway.

Even 1 in 1,000 odds of sleeping with that girl are better than GUARANTEED FAILURE. And if you don’t approach, that’s the only outcome you’re going to get: failure and regret.

#4. Rejection does not exist. There is no rejection. There are only results.

Imagine yourself approaching a woman you’d like to have sex with. She doesn’t immediately react well. She seems nervous and tense, and after talking to you for a while she says she has to go and leaves.

Do you call this rejection?

If so, you’re falling prey to a cognitive bias called the “mind projection fantasy” — which is the idea that the way you see the world is the way it is, and that you’re telepathic and can read people’s minds.

In reality, all we can say about the above example is that your actions produced a result which differed from the one you intended.
To say anything else is fantasy and speculation.

To talk about “rejection” assumes you have perfect knowledge of the girl’s internal state and motivations. You do not, and CANNOT, have such knowledge.

There are a hundred reasons why a woman may not have reacted well that have nothing to do with you as a person, your social status, your sexual desirability, or your appearance.

Maybe her cat just died. Maybe she’s on meth. Maybe her back teeth are coming in and she’s in excruciating pain. You just don’t know. So to assume she walked away because she thought you were low status or too short is literally delusional. It’s actually a negative hallucination: you’re projecting your own imagined fantasies and insecurities onto other people.

Eliminate the word rejection from your vocabulary. Replace it with the word results.

And like in anything else, getting the results you want will be purely a matter of massive repetition.

One man is an expert violinist. The results he produces (the sound gets from the instrument) are exactly what he aimed for, and people adore him for the beauty he’s able to bring into the world through his music.

But when he started learning the violin he could produce only a hideous cacophony which made people hate him. He kept practicing, again and again, and eventually his brain learned the distinctions which allowed him to produce a successful result.

So it is for success with women.

Open your front door.

Walk outside.

Go somewhere where women are.

Talk to one of them.

Repeat.

You could be a hideous freak, it doesn’t matter — the one thing that is absolutely certain in this world is that you will get better at anything you do repeatedly.

The time to start is now.

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