BY MIKE HAINES
Today I’m going to give you a simple method for never running out of things to say when speaking with a woman.
Don’t use this unless you’re comfortable with turning your mouth into a “conversational fire-hose” which actually cannot stop spitting an endless stream of witty, hilarious banter to any woman who comes within a 1 meter radius.
This method will work even if you’re naturally “introverted”, and even if you’ve never approached a woman before.
Here it is:
When you approach the girl, honestly express the feelings that you’re experiencing as a result of talking to her.
For example, I might walk up to the first girl of the night and say something like the following:
Me: Hi, I’m Mike, who are you?
Girl: I’m Jessie.
Me: Oh cool. I’m honestly so nervous talking to you right now. I’m not very good at talking to girls, can you tell? You’re so pretty, it’s actually scary for me to do this. Is that weird?
This does two things.
#1: It immediately disarms resistance. I’ve NEVER had a girl respond badly when I approached using this gambit. It’s extremely disarming. When you tell a girl she makes you nervous, or that you’re bad at talking to girls, or whatever, it COMPLETELY NEUTRALISES all her normal defence mechanisms. In the hands of a guy who’s already got tight game, this can actually be straight up dangerous.
#2: It turns embarrassment into energy. You’ll notice right after saying these words to a girl that you feel REALLY GOOD. Your emotional state rises. There’s something about being completely vulnerable with a woman that feels scary and thrilling, like jumping out of a plane.
The net result is that you’ll find it WAY easier to talk spontaneously and fluidly without running out of things to say, if you use an opener like this one.
It’s really cool, I love it.
I suggest trying it tonight. It’s the best possible way to approach your first 2-3 sets of the night.
It means you always have something to say. When you see that girl and you’re wondering, “what’s my line”, well, now you don’t have to think of one. You can just wander up to her and start verbalising how you’re nervous talking to her.
“SOUNDS GREAT — BUT ONCE I’VE GOT MY FOOT IN THE DOOR, HOW DO I FLIP IT AROUND AND START BUILDING ATTRACTION?”
It’s actually easy.
Basically, you take the initial theme of you being nervous, and then you just keep AMPLIFYING it and exaggerating it until it’s ridiculous.
Then you move into running standard “game” (push/pull, negging, teasing, statements of intent, etc).
“You’re so adorable. I’m sorry, I’m not very good at talking to women. This is actually my first time ever being in a nightclub, can you tell? My hands are shaking so badly. Please don’t reject me. I’m a virgin. Will you be my first kiss? No really, I swear. Hahahha. You’re a dork, I like you. I can tell we’re not going to get along… Why? Because you have toilet paper stuck to your foot. Did no one tell you? You’ve been walking around like that all night. Ha, made you look. No, I’m just kidding. Hey, hands off the merchandise! I hate you…”
Try this out. You’ll like the results.
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