BY MIKE HAINES
Every girl is a stepping stone to an even hotter girl.
Niccolo MachiavelliMike Haines
I have no idea why my leg looks like a chicken bone here’s. Let’s all just try and get past it, ok?
This post is going to offend a lot of people.
Most people are not willing to do what it takes to get an incredible girlfriend.
They bitch and complain that “women these days are all cheaters / sluts / attention whores / [fill in the blank sour grapes excuse]”
In reality, if one of these hot slutty attention-seeking girls were to approach a guy like this and ask to be his girlfriend, he’d be over the moon with excitement.
Here’s the cold hard truth about getting an amazing girlfriend which you’re not going to learn in Disney movies or inspirational quotes on Facebook:
Sex is about POWER
Sex is about power. Dating is about power.
And yes, relationships are fundamentally about power.
When you have sexual power, women want to date you.
The more sexual power you have, the more women want you, and the more options you have to choose from — leading to a great relationship with an amazing woman.
The less sexual power you have, the less options you have to choose from — leading to settling for a woman you’re neither happy with, or proud of. Or worse: settling for having no woman in your life at all.
What is sexual power?
Simply put, power is OPTIONALITY.
The more options you have — the more different girls you can choose from who willingly want to date and sleep with you — the less important any one particular girl is to you.
The less important any one girl is to you, the more LEVERAGE you have.
A hot woman wants to be with a man who has many options, but who chose her
Women are magnetically attracted to men who have sexual abundance.
They are repulsed by neediness, desperation and scarcity.
When people talk about “abundance” and “scarcity”, they often tend to get very “new age-y” — which I don’t like.
However, there’s a legitimate scientific basis to why women are attracted to men with options.
See the “Sexy Son” Hypothesis of female mate preference, described here by Richard Dawkins:
“In a society where males compete with each other to be chosen as he-men by females, one of the best things a mother can do for her genes is to make a son who will turn out in his turn to be an attractive he-man. If she can ensure that her son is one of the fortunate few males who wins most of the copulations in the society when he grows up, she will have an enormous number of grandchildren. The result of this is that one of the most desirable qualities a male can have in the eyes of a female is, quite simply, sexual attractiveness itself.”
In other words, the primary factor determining whether a woman is attracted to you is not your looks, your money, or even your social status — but simply your ability to attract other women.
If she knows and sees you’re in demand with other women, she’ll want you.
Why? Because it means if she has a son with you, then he’ll be popular with women too — leading to her genes spreading further than if she chose a guy who’s not as good with girls.
“The stink of desperation” and the wisdom of fools
Tell me if you’ve ever had this experience:
You get dumped by your girlfriend and haven’t left your house to socialise in a month.
Your friend drags you out with him to a bar, and over beers, you wonder how the hell you’re going to get back in the game.
His response: “Fuck a fattie. At least you’ll get the smell of desperation off you.”
At first you’re reluctant. You don’t want to “lower your standards”.
But eventually he gets you drunk, brings a kinda cute chubby girl over to the table, and… one thing leads to another.
You don’t feel proud of yourself the next morning. But guess what? His sage advice worked.
Suddenly you don’t feel as desperate. You feel like you’re “back in the game.”
On your walk back to your apartment, you spot a group of pretty girls and you smile at them. They smile back.
You can’t help but laugh. The next week, you go out and find yourself making out with a cute girl. You get her number, and go on a date with her a few days later.
Suddenly other girls are showing more interest now. You’re being texted by girls you haven’t heard from in years. And each night you go out, you’re getting more numbers, and hooking up with cuter and cuter girls.
Do this for a couple of months and pretty soon you’ll be dating women who most guys would chew off their left arm to bang.
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