You see a hottie at the grocery store and you stroll up to her with a shit-eating grin on your face.
“You’re adorable,” you say. “Tell me your name.”
“I have a boyfriend,” she replies flatly.
It hits you like a punch in the gut.
What do you say next? What’s your comeback?
I’ll tell you what mine is…
THE BOYFRIEND DESTROYER
I still remember the first time I pulled a girl with a boyfriend. I was on a rampage at my friend’s party. Of the 5 attractive women there, I had made out with 3 and fooled around with one.
A blonde in her late twenties whispered in my ear, “meet me in the bathroom in 5 minutes.”
I later found out she was engaged. In fact, her unwitting fiancé was in the room as she made this proposition.
Another time, I got talking to a woman at a festival — this one coincidentally also in her late twenties, also blonde.
Turns out she was married. That didn’t stop her making out with me and dragging me to the bathroom with her.
Before I could fuck her, I was intercepted by her husband — who pulled her away.
I remember looking at this guy and laughing. He wouldn’t even make eye contact with me.
WHY DO WOMEN CHEAT?
One of the most surprising and disturbing things you’ll learn from getting good at game is that it’s often easier to have a one night stand with a girl who has a boyfriend than with a single woman.
Why is this?
To understand the answer, you have to know that women are machines, blindly programmed by natural selection to get as many replications of their genes into the next generation as possible.
To achieve this end, women come pre-programmed with three basic reproductive strategies:
1. PROMISCUITY: Get fucked by the “lover” and have his kids. Because the lover is a womanizer, his sons are likely to be womanizers too. This will yield the woman an immense number of grandchildren. The downside? The lover is less likely to stick around and raise the kids — meaning they’re less likely to survive in the ancestral environment.
2. MONOGAMY: Marry a “provider” and raise a family with him. This will give the woman’s offspring the best possible chance of surviving. The problem? The beta provider’s sons will probably be betas themselves — thus producing fewer grandchildren than the “sexy sons” of the alpha.
3. HYBRID: This “rogue” third strategy is a hybrid of promiscuity and monogamy. A woman unconsciously following this genetic strategy will get fucked by the alpha (endowing her offspring with his superior genes), then deceive a beta into raising the children as his own. Assuming the beta does not detect the deception, this is the highest yielding possible strategy. This is because the woman gets the benefit of womanizer genes and a lot of parental investment. All of which is to say…
WOMEN ARE HARDWIRED TO CHEAT ON THEIR BOYFRIENDS AND SPOUSES, PROVIDED THE RIVAL HAS HIGH ENOUGH REPLICATION VALUE TO OFFSET THE RISK
Women are genetically programmed to fuck alpha males and get beta males to raise the kids.
Why? Simple math, as indisputable as the laws of physics.
Consider the following:
- Imagine a population in which females are genetically hardwired to be 100% monogamous.
- Now imagine that one woman is born with a genetic mutation which favours fucking the alpha and getting the beta to raise it. In this case, the mutant female benefits from the higher replication value of alpha genes, and the lower infant mortality rate of having a provider to protect and raise them.
- Because this “mutant” strategy will always produce more grandchildren, on average, than those produced by monogamy, it’s mathematically inevitable that women who are wired to cheat with the alpha and cuckold the beta will become dominant in the population.
This is indeed what we see in reality — with an estimated 10-30% of children being raised by a man who is not their biological father.
So how do you respond when a woman tells you she has a boyfriend?
Here’s what I say:
Girl: I have a boyfriend.
Me: Perfect. So when I get you pregnant, you can trick him into raising my sons as his own. You’re just what I’ve been looking for.
That’s it, folks. Instant panty-dampening.
In three sentences, you have just DEMOLISHED her boyfriend.
Expect for her jaw to drop in the “I can’t believe you just said that” face… while her eyes sparkle with mischief and desire.
You can now proceed to game this girl just as you would any other.
Provided you’re higher value than her boyfriend and there’s no risk of getting caught, she will always cheat.
It’s math, not magic.
Women are machines blindly programmed by natural selection to mate with the male who has the highest replication value — i.e. the man who is desired by the most women.
Have a nice day 🙂
(I’ll write a followup post about how to avoid getting cheated on if enough people ask me to.)
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